First Things First

You. Yes, you do matter. You can have a clean house, sparkling floors, and bright kids; but if do not take care of you, none of it will make him see your full potential. Take the rollers out of your head. Put some clothes on, away with the bathrobe. Get into a routine of exercising. Go get some lady clothes. If you can't do this in one day, then take your time. But just get it done. Because you matter. You are the home. The queen. The wife. The mom. The personal chef. The doctor. The teacher. You are rich with skills . So you must be the part.
As hard as it may be for some of you, take the time to get your hair done. And if this is not possible than buy a nice fragrant shampoo and conditioner. This will start to boost your feelings about yourself being a housewife. I will touch on this subject of you again, this is the only way you will truly feel the pleasure of being a housewife, if you take care of you too.