Monday, May 26, 2008
Should I Put My Husband First or Kids?
Dear Questioner:
When children come along, we are often faced with who to put first. Is it our spouse or children? My answer is the spouse. By doing this doesn't mean the children are loved any less. What we have to remember is if a strong marital relationship is developed this will God-Willing provide the children with a stable home. Of course circumstances can be different where the child has to come first, such as a child with special needs.
Work with your partner everyday to create a loving atmosphere for the kids. Together focus on meeting the children's needs and they will grow up feeling very secure. Seeing Mommy and Daddy love each other so much will allow them to feel safe and worry free about their parent's relationship ending in divorce. Remember to keep open communication with each other. Developing this type family structure with the marraige put first should bring peace and harmony into your home.
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